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      Atham Z - Psychic News - December 2003
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          Hello and welcome to the Psychic News.
           In this edition we discuss the following:
                1. Time
                2. Humour
                3. My FAQ
                4. Candy Canes
                5. Seasonal Dreams
                6. Trivia

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                        TIME
Ecclesiastes (3:2-8)
A time to be born and a time to die.
A time to plant and a time to uproot.
A time to kill and a time to heal.
A time to tear down and a time to build.
A time to weep and a time to laugh.
A time to mourn and a time to dance.
A time to scatter stones and a time to gather them.
A time to embrace and a time to refrain.
A time to search and a time to give up.
A time to keep and a time to throw away.
A time to tear and a time to mend.
A time to be silent and a time to speak.
A time to love and a time to hate.
A time for war and a time for peace.
Recently having lost a loved one from my family, and
now coming up to another new year, I was halted in
my reading and my thoughts by the need to
contemplate these Biblical verses.  Birth of course is
the first step on the road to death, but when death
touches our lives, we are forced to directly face our
own aging and mortality.  The only way to survive the
pain of life is to joyfully celebrate births and actively
grieve at wakes for deaths.
The verse about birth and death seems to encompass
the time for tears versus laughter as well.  Try to
balance the periods of weeping with other periods of
hilarity.  Remember that although life may be painful
at times, time itself eventually heals or softens all.
Now that the harvest is in, we can only endure the
wintertime until the sun warms the earth for our
replanting.  The phrase about reaping and sowing,
speaks of the need not only for periods of hard work
but also for patience and creativity in our use of the
intervening time.
The pacifists out there, I am sure, feel there is
NEVER a time to kill.  Respect for life must dictate
that a person also respects his or her own life.  If it
boiled down to him or me, I must admit I could find
it within myself to kill.  Meanwhile healing (physically,
emotionally and spiritually), is a constantly ongoing
process for all of us.  This to me is the same concept
as tearing and mending, although the latter phrase
involves much less vital decision making.
The time to demolish or construct involves common
sense and is often slowed or hastened by the ever-
fluctuating available resources.  It is very sad and
restricting when a person refuses to accept or identify
when it is time to move on.  Something in this verse
similarly speaks to me about mourning and dancing.
It is part of the normal human condition to find changes
unsettling, perhaps initially sad and once the adjustment
is accomplished they can be wonderfully joyous through
having opened up new opportunities.
Scattering and gathering stones, in my case, reflects
the meditative state of gathering or discarding ideas and
beliefs or sometimes even friendships or dreams.  Of
course gathered stones build dikes against the rising
water levels of global warming, and scattered stones
shape the quiet stillness of Japanese meditative gardens.
In ancient times, probably exactly the same stones were
used as the clocks to measure time.  That idea expands
the concept of this verse to include deadlines versus
times of leisure.
One of the most rewarding parts of work with handi-
capped people is that they hug you when they are
pleased with you and bite you when angry at you.  If
people in general would more often openly express their
true inner feelings by embraces versus restraint, it
would be a much easier world to live in.  We could then
discard assumptions and fuzzy or erroneous conclusions
about what other people are implying to us through what
they don’t say.
In terms of searching and giving up, this again
revolves around common sense about how our time is
spent.  "We all have a limited number of heartbeats,"
said Neil Armstrong, the first human to touch another
world.  I genuinely hope that all my readers here
respect life. In combining these ideas, I hope that we
don’t waste any of these heartbeats, because they are
the only ones we are certain of in this lifetime.  We
simply don’t know exactly how many we still have left.
Keeping and throwing away becomes very complex
when applied to relationships.  Coming to a decision in
this area, is the hardest task known to man in my
opinion.  Sometimes it really helps to write down a list
of the positives and the negatives associated with a
relationship, and when negatives put the situation out
of balance, your decision is clearly made for you.
Then the trouble is finding the physical strength and
overcoming any barriers of fear in order to carry
through with what you know you must do.  Finding
inner strength can be a lifetime opus.
A time to be silent and a time to speak.  What a
conundrum this one can raise.  All too often when I
spoke I wish I had shut up, and vice versa.  I feel
part of the balance here is to choose your words
carefully and don’t use too many of them.  The most
important part of silence is in your capacity to listen
to what the world or other people are really saying to
you.  I suggest silencing the self-centered ego while
encouraging your globally oriented id to speak.
Love and hate are not as different as you might
assume.  Both require time, energy and attention.
Loving is expansive by enlarging you through
encompassing another or others, while hating coils
and squeezes around your heart and twists and scars
your very soul.  By no means am I suggesting that a
person must love everyone else on this planet, but
work not to hate often or for long, work for
indifference to those you may have unsuccessfully
tried to love.  Work towards caution and safety with
those who have deliberately or inadvertently hurt you.
Work towards tolerance and understanding of those
other billions of people on earth.  Here again, time
can be a helpmate in tempering extremes of both
positive and negative emotions.
We all wish for peace.  I believe even those who
start wars are only seeking peace in their own
narrowly defined terms.  War and peace are
intricately connected with our notions of privacy and
freedom.  We fight to maintain our privacy so that we
can feel free to do whatever we want.  But what on
earth are we doing with our freedom that requires so
much privacy?  Is our freedom being used to exploit
others, to cover up lies, to plot the overthrow of
governments?  I definitely want privacy for my
intimate bodily functions, but otherwise I don’t really
need it at all.  Figuratively send those private secrets
into space, build transparent walls, let the world see
the beautiful person that you are and enjoy your
freedom.  Now of course in this transparent utopia
someone will want to steal your teapot because they
can finally see it and they like it better than their own.
Even in peacetime there are criminals for the justice
system to deal with.  But with peace rather than war,
no bombs will break your windows, no loved ones will
be lost to political atrocities and your freedoms won’t
be burdensomely restricted.
Have a good new year.  Take the time to consider
how you spend your time in 2004.  Enjoy all those
magical heartbeats.  Live each and every one knowing
that they will never come again.  And what, you may
ask, does this have to do with psychic matters?
Remember that when we attune our energies to
positive conditions we can remotely affect other people
whose health, attitudes and even priorities are skewed
negatively.  Please make 2004 a year of wisely
spending your time.
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                       The Humour Offering
"Do you believe in life after death?" the boss asked
one of his employees.
"Yes sir," the employee replied.
"Well then, that makes everything just fine," the boss
went on.  "After you left early yesterday to go to your
grandmother's funeral, she stopped in to see you."
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                        My FAQ 
Dear Atham,
Hope you can help me with a concern I have. Since
I went through a very traumatic experience I have
become able to see auras (too bad I don't know what
they mean). My biggest concern is that now I also
have a tendency for spirits to attach to me. They make
me feel extremely shaky, cold and lose my appetite
and sleepless. Do you have any knowledge or
information on how to over come this problem?  I also
can no longer do laying on of hands because I end up
taking on other people's spirits. It was my dream to
become a good healer. I also have become sensitive
to people’s psychic attacks. Thank you for any help
you can offer.
Judy
Hello,
Obviously whatever psychic or healing gifts you have
are out of your control at the moment. My best advice
is to immediately stop all activities that expose you to
or invite you to interact with  "psychic" energy. Take
a prolonged break, as in several months.  You need to
become "grounded", which basically means in control
of making the perception and/or touch of such "spirits"
stop when you want it to.  When you feel better and
your appetite and sleep patterns are solidly back to
normal then you could try to resume your intuitive
activities. It will help you to attach your perceptions to
a ritual (ceremony) or tool (object) so that you simply
don't get the vibes unless you have invited them
deliberately. Also envision an encircling dome of
protective white light around yourself that has the
properties to not let any energy near to you that you
are not actively seeking to interact with.
As for psychic attacks, the old religious statement
"evil be gone" really works, because you are then
focusing your intent to repel whatever. You can also
use candle magic to cleanse your personal space. For
a few minutes each day burn a white candle (to
protect you and those you love), a purple candle (to
rebound bad energy back to anyone who may be
sending it) and a black candle (to burn negatives up
in smoke and make them vanish). Make sure you
snuff the flames when you put them out rather than
blowing them out, as that shows your respect for the
forces of intent within the flames.
Eventually you will feel that the space around you is
clear and calm again. Only then will it be time to start
very slowly back into your perception and healing
activities.
 Just for your information, readers vary drastically
about what the appearance of aura's mean. Here is
a short list to explain one commonly accepted set of
colour interpretations:
           Red - passion or anger
           Blue - spirituality
           Yellow - high intellect or degree of intellectual
              activity
           Brown - greed
           Green - jealousy
           Dull colours, such as browns, grays, or other
              muddy hues often indicate fatigue or illness.
I hope this answer has helped you in some way.
Bests - Atham Z
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                      :::Just for Fun:::
                     Home Made Candy Canes
3 c       sugar
1 tsp.    peppermint flavoring
1/2 c    water
3/4 c    light corn syrup
3/4 tsp. red vegetable or food coloring
1/4 tsp. cream of tartar
The sugar, water, syrup, and cream of tartar you
combine and heat till the sugar's dissolved completely.
Divide into two saucepans, boil, but don't  stir, please,
until each lot is 280 degrees F. Add 1/2 tsp. peppermint
to each lot and add the coloring to one, but not the other:
place on an enamel or marble table to cool. (First oiling
the table, as a general rule). Like taffy you stretch and
pull and form into ropes of red and white, now twist
them around again and again. And form them into your
candy cane. Now on an oiled surface you allow them to
harden.
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                Dreams of Christmas
Is there any other holiday so filled with dreams and
references to dreams? "...I'm dreaming of a White
Christmas..." "...as visions of sugarplums danced in
their heads..." Each year we revisit the music and the
pageantry of the Nutcracker Suite -- a story inspired
by a young girl's dream of her nutcracker doll.
Perhaps the most famous Christmas dreamer of all is
none other than Ebeneezer Scrooge who reasoned
that perhaps his weary Christmas Eve visits from
Jacob Marley and crew were no more than
nightmares he experienced from an "undigested bit
of beef". What does it mean to literally dream of
Christmas? Some of my favorite dream sites on the
Net reveal the following:
To see a Christmas Tree in your dream, symbolizes
family celebrations, gatherings, and familial
relationships.
To see a Yule log in your dream, signifies a positive
turn of events in the coming year.
To see mistletoe in your dream, symbolizes joyous
occasions and much happiness
Is it any surprise we could not readily find an
interpretation for "fruitcake"?
Contributed by Marta Martin
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                           Trivial Tidbit
               Have You Smelt these Spells?
These ancient Celtic spells are about securing a lover,
but ‘omigosh’, I don’t know how even ancient peoples
could have gone to such bizarre lengths!
"Catch a sparrow.  Kill him and eat the brain with
your love interest on your mind.  Lust will rise within
you."
I would personally have to be already consumed with
lust or perhaps a burning psychosis to go to such a
gruesome extreme for a lover.  Bottom line here -
would anybody be worth this obscenity?  The spell
doesn't say the love object would be reciprocally
consumed with lust, and neither would anyone else
unless you were conscientious about using your
mouthwash.
"Hunt down a wolf.  Scrape the marrow from the
bone in his left foot and put it inside an amulet to wear
near your heart.  Then he or she is sure to want you."
Or sure to successfully avoid you when they can smell
you coming!  For centuries people have been overly
afraid of wolves and this sounds like just another
creative excuse to eliminate yet another wolf.  Wolves
can’t be that dangerous if they are so easy to find and
murder.
"The Dead Strip:  Sneak into a graveyard at night and
exhume a corpse, nine days buried."  (Use your
handy collapsible shovel for this part of the work.) 
"Tear off a strip of the skin from head to foot.  Then
crawl into the bedroom of the one you lust for and
while he or she is sleeping, wrap the skin around the
person’s arm or leg.  Take special care to remove this
before the person wakes up."  (I guess so and they
would have to be a very sound sleeper too!)  "As long
as you secretly keep this skin in your possession, the
person will only have eyes for you and their lust will
be most satisfying to you."
Let’s hope the object of affection takes the time to
shower and leaves you the time for the same before
hunting you down.  And where on earth would a
person stash such grizzly dermis?  Thank goodness
in this day and age we all usually lock our doors
before vulnerably retiring for sleep at night.
There is a small but important lesson within this
smelly review.   The spells are supposed to generate
"lust", rather than "love".  I think it is important for all
of us to carefully differentiate those two.
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